Little did I know when I started this blog.. that I will hardly have any time to login and write anything.. Well to tell you the complete truth it is not always the brat.. but mostly it is 🙂
It does seem ages now that I am penning this but actually I cannot still believe it. It seems only the other day a red little bundle was wriggling in my arms and now when I have this very busy brat that won’t sit in place for even a minute.
After coming back from India..these couple of months passed as if in a daze.He learnt sitting on his own in India and just after we were back he started bottom shuffling and then shuffling this whole body to move.. it was so hilarious to watch him.. and just as I was enjoying his new found mobility..he started crawling and before I knew was all over the place.And then he found his next adventure..standing up and now he has started cruising while holding a support with one hand.. I know it will be a matter of days when he starts walking on his own which I am excited about and dreading at the same time.
But these I was prepared for ( well.. kind of) What I was not prepared for is the personality that I can see just grown in these couple of months. R is his own person..has his own likes and dislikes.. his own way of expressing them.I am amazed at how he has started understanding my words and how he completely lets me know his views and opinions by his actions and expressions. I was shocked.. yes shocked when one day when he was 8 and a half mo, I was trying to take the remote from him and tell him not to chew it..he just refused by shaking his head and telling me “nyang nyang” ( no I suppose) and crawled himself away from me and sat in a corner chewing it again. I did not know what to do or say! Nobody told me they are that expressive or opinionated from that age. And then the other thing hit me.The BIG THING. Like my friend used to tell me..They know.. they always know how to get the better of us!! And I realised, I can make all the checklist about what I want to teach my son I want.. but it is going to be a very tough journey ahead executing them.Parenting is a huge challenge and the first year is definitely not the toughest as I had in my mind!